The final segment on the CBS “This Morning” so featured a story by Mo Rocca on the nascent tradition of engagement rings for men. Although Mo is openly gay, this has nothing to do w/ gay marriage, etc. The story spotlighted real, heterosexual, couples where either the girl has asked the guy to marry her or, having been the recipient of a more traditional proposal, the girl asks the guy if he would wear an engagement ring as well.
As always, the trend is much bigger outwith this backwards country. Don’t think for a second that this involves the guy wearing a one or two carat rock on his finger. The rings are plainer – read more “manly” – than the ones for the ladies and may have a small diamond or other precious stone embedded in them. Since single guys will often wear a ring of some sort on their left ring-finger, they may be hard to distinguish from the run of the mill man’s ring.
What is important here is the concept. Whether he is the proposer or the proposee, the guy is – or should be – of some small value to his future mate and her asking him to wear this small token declaring that he’s off the market is rather touching. The traditional engagement ring has become a large financial investment for the guy; one that is expected if not required by the girl. Since women, more often than not, are earning their own way through life, doesn’t her husband-to-be deserve a little something?
The “Man-gagement” ring. Hate the name. Love the concept.